Ever been dumped.....?

[Intelligenthamster]

Not a planned dumping, but the EastEnders award in my family belongs to my unfortunate cousin, he got a phone call at work saying his wife had had a car accident and was going to be kept in for observation as she had some minor injuries. He dropped everything and hotfooted it over there and found her boyfriend in the cubicle with her. Ouch.

 

[biggs682]

i got told and was expected to do so without a word to leave on dec 28 2003 , made her wait for 6 weeks till i got the right financial sum in cash and rights to see our daughter .....

bitc?

 

[alecstilleyedye]

a friend of my wife had already made the decision to leave the bloke she was living with and take herself and their son back to her hometown. he's a waste of space and she's best rid of him in the opinion of all other than himself.

anyway, after things came to a head, she chose to leave while he was watching the football in the pub. he rang her about 2200 asking where she was. she told him she was on her way home. he rang again half an hour later, to be told she was three miles from newcastle…

 

[XmisterIS]

I have experienced the whole spectrum, from being mutually in love and it not being enough (awful), all the way through to being dumped by text by an older woman who just wanted a bit of fun with a younger man.

 

[ianrauk]

funnily enough I just got a Dear Becs email just before reading this post!


"I think you rather like me and I think of you more as a friend. I don't feel the sparks of love for you" - I think sparks of love are a bit ambitious after 3 dates, I was just aiming for a bit of cheeky fun! Still at least he paid for dinner!

Dope.. his great loss...

 

[Black Sheep]

I got dumped by text once. We were in a club and she wrote the text on her phone then handed the phone to me. She didn't even use any credit to do it.

pocket phone, walk out, text her mates

 

[XmisterIS]

funnily enough I just got a Dear Becs email just before reading this post!


"I think you rather like me and I think of you more as a friend. I don't feel the sparks of love for you" - I think sparks of love are a bit ambitious after 3 dates, I was just aiming for a bit of cheeky fun! Still at least he paid for dinner!

Screw him! ('scuse the pun), he ain't worth it, sister! Nuh-uh.

 

[Becs]

Dope.. his great loss...

Awww thanks Ian!

Screw him! ('scuse the pun), he ain't worth it, sister! Nuh-uh.

Thanks girlfriend!

 

[AideyM]

Hmmm, seen by many as a serial dumpee. How to pick the worst ?

being dumped on Facebook, my mates found out before me. i received my things by recorded delivery from 1 mile away

split from my long time partner in such as messy manner that it caused a temporary split for one couple, a permanent spilt for us and a divorce for a third couple and I wasn't even there!!

the most recent split was due to her ex finding out she was seeing someone and sticking his nose in. She went to London to get her shoot together and texted me on arrival that "all we could be was friends" to which I pointed out I already had plenty of friends.

The funniest, was being told that she couldn't see us growing old together, at 48 & 46 I remarked that we were already half way there. That probably didn't go down too well.

The most painful. I got stabbed by one whilst trying to take the knife off her when she was drunk on a news years eve and didn't want to see the next year in.

 

[Kirstie]

The most painful. I got stabbed by one whilst trying to take the knife off her when she was drunk on a news years eve and didn't want to see the next year in.

I've got nothing in comparison to that, but I have been dumped by email and by phone. In the email i was told quite casually by my boyfriend that he'd been seeing someone else (in fairness it wasn't going well); and in the phone conversation I was told that 'I just don't fancy you and its time to call it a day'. Bad at the time but best in the long run!

 

[ACS]

During my many tours on the Falkland Islands it was considered bad form not to pin 'Dear John's' on the corridor notice board.

Read many, including one where the wife wrote to say she was setting up home with the husbands father another where the wife had discovered her husband was having a fling with her sister and mother and perhaps the most telling a mate of mine just got a set of house keys in the mail.

 

[AideyM]

During my many tours on the Falkland Islands it was considered bad form not to pin 'Dear John's' on the corridor notice board.

Read many, including one where the wife wrote to say she was setting up home with the husbands father another where the wife had discovered her husband was having a fling with her sister and mother and perhaps the most telling a mate of mine just got a set of house keys in the mail.

And you lot carry guns around for a living. Brave, very brave

 

[surfdude]

nope , the ladies always love me

 

[Hover Fly]

She decided - what, it was some kind of political choice, or did she realise that she was?

I worked with a gay man once who told me that he didn't actually realise that he was gay until one day he was walking arm-in-arm with his girlfriend and found himself ogling an attractive man walking in the opposite direction. He told his girlfriend a few minutes later. I'm not sure how she felt on hearing about his discovery ...

My cousin's husband left her for another man, she was glad he went after discovering he wasn't going to the pub with his best mate-who had been best man at their wedding-for a quick pint, but to a certain south lakeland layby.


Anyone heard of any "conversions" the other way?

 

[Beethoven]

"I just don't love you any more"