I don't want to get into a massive debate on what happened and why but I'll just say that I've been light on the personal details and not everything runs like a flowchart. No fingers need to be pointed at anyone other than the two-hats with the jerrycans. We made the journey and I think we could justifiably call it important.Now I know it's been a while since I was at uni, but does she have no friends or flatmates or at least a resident advisor watching for such things as freshers being stuck in their rooms for days on end? Or if you'd been unable to travel, wouldn't you have begged her to go to A&E or at least the uni med centre? After all, you had an idea that it was serious, as you went, so if you couldn't go and feared she wouldn't manage to seek help, wouldn't you have called help in for her?
I'm glad for you all that you could go and that you went and it all seems to be working out and I fear that saying this to a parent will be unpopular, but I don't think that trip should be mentioned in the same context as essential workers being left stranded. If that trip hadn't happened due to lack of fuel, things still should have worked out.
Actually, the more I think about it, the more I'm pissed off that student welfare systems failed to the point you felt you needed to go on such a mercy mission.
I wasn't comparing our journey with the needs of essential workers, but pointing out that this stupidity and selfishness affects wider society. While the effect of the current shortages on us was a delay of about an hour and a huge amount of emotional distress, in other circumstances the consequences can be life-threatening. As it happens, the A&E was missing some staff as the shortages had caught them out and there was also a slight issue transferring her from our local A&E to the regional general due to some fuel-related shuffling of patient transports. Not the end of the world, but completely unnecessary.