I have to ask, if roadies spend so much time 'On the hoods' where you have to move your hands to brake etc...
My cycling is mainly touring style - I'm not interested in going fast, and don't wear lycra (I did once accidentally buy a pair of socks that had lycra in them, but after sensitive therapy I managed to put the trauma behind me
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And I'm always happy to say hello to other cyclists, whether they're riding anything from a butcher's bike to a featherlight carbon wonder.
I've mainly used drop bars all my cycling life, and it's just not true that you have to use the drops to brake. In fact, in most conditions I can brake just fine from on the hoods. I ride flat bar bikes too, and I'd say there's little difference between my control of brakes on drop hoods and my control using flats in most situations - the relative positions of my bum, head and hands, with a bike comfortably set up for me, is very similar in both cases.
Sure, there are people who find it difficult to brake well on the hoods, and those people should use different bars - but to assume it's a universal given is simply wrong.
In some situations, braking from the drop position is definitely better, but I also think it's better (for me, others will differ) than if I were braking on flats - the dropped body position and lower centre of gravity make me feel more stable. And though I'm not competitive, I find the drop position by far the best for powering up short hills (which I enjoy doing) and for the occasional fast downhill sprint (which I also enjoy).
I've tried various bars - I currently have butterfly bars on my tourer as a trial, and they have some very good points, though I probably won't keep them.
And I think that's what everyone should do - try the options, and it's for each of us to use what suits us best with our different body sizes and shapes and different balance, psychology, etc. It's plain wrong to assert that "These are my favourites, so everyone else is wrong".