Bollo said:How do you 'force choice'?
see my last post Bollo. Your kids are still at an age where you can lay the (your) law down to them. It is an eye opener when they turn around and tell you to fcuk off because they don't like the rules you make.
They may not quite put it like that, but one day, you will feel quite inadequate when they realise 'your laws/rules are ones they can ignore at their own discretion.
This is where the laws of society step in to protect them as individuals and the rest of us from their actions. It also protects the children from the willful stupidity of their parents who would transpose their misguided ideology on their kids.
Riding hats are an entirely sensible proposition for horse riders under the age of 14 and likewise for young cyclists.