My cadence was always pretty low (in the 50s), id really grind the big gears. Since getting a computer with cadence i tried to keep using easier gears which in my head felt slower, but my actual speed was the same, sometimes slightly higher and just the effort felt a bit less strained. Now im normally riding around about 75-80rpm and when i try to go as fast its about 90rpm. It feels better, much smoother rather than doing leg presses. I dont know if it fits the ideal but it seems to suit me

Ive seen a lot of people quote much higher cadences, but i seem to spin out at about 110rpm even downhill. All of the above is on flat pedals btw
