wonderloaf
Guru
I would persevere a little longer before deciding if it really is the wrong bike for you. About two years ago bought my first road bike (coming from an MTB) and had all kinds of fit problems. So tried flipping the original stem, a shorter flipped stem and finally an angled short stem which raised the bars and made me very comfortable. Just recently bought another bike with a un-flipped standard long stem with the intention of swapping over the angled stem from the old bike, but I thought 'what the hell, let's try the long stem' and you know what?.... it's great, no problems at all. I think what has happened is that over time my body has adapted to the different position required for a road bike, I can even get down in the drops for much longer periods of time as well which wasn't possible originally! So my advice is persevere, try different saddle positions and stem sizes/heights and then make your decision!