Chuffy said:If only it was that simple. We could scrap treatment for alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling and every other kind of destructive behaviour and replace it with a simple slap from the addict's mum...
It doesn't work like that CP. Boonen is a grown up and if he wants to be stupid, he will.
Oh and I presume everyone has forgotten the massive fuss made some years ago when Mark Bosnich (Chelsea goalie) was busted for coke. Oh and that other chap (can't recall his name but he cost Chelsea an absolute fortune) who was also sent packing on account of his coke habit.
Flying_Monkey said:Doesn't surprise me. Cocaine tends to be taken by arrogant boring w*nkers with too much money...
Flying_Monkey said:Doesn't surprise me. Cocaine tends to be taken by arrogant boring w*nkers with too much money...
This is a massive over-simplification of a complex matter. It is not always apparent that a loved one has a problem, and there may be personal relationship issues which cloud these things. Who among us knows anything about what Tom Boonen's family and friends have done about it? Besides, he is an adult. He should be supported - and what do not know that he is not - but the responsibility is ultimately his.ComedyPilot said:Addicts - be they gamblers, alcoholics or druggies - all started somewhere, and their friends families did nothing to stop them, hence them developing into the full blown article.
I don't believe Tom is a full blown crackhead just yet, and it is still possible for people (who REALLY care) to give him the reality check he needs.
I do not believe that him taking cocaine does any harm to his sport. It is not a cycling-related matter. It does harm to his personal image but it does so independently of his profession. Any links drawn by the media or the public are their own doing.As I wrote in my first piece, I do think Tom is possibly surrounded by fawning sycophants that don't understand or care about the harm he is doing to himself or his sport.
Skip Madness said:.
I do not believe that him taking cocaine does any harm to his sport. It is not a cycling-related matter. It does harm to his personal image but it does so independently of his profession. Any links drawn by the media or the public are their own doing.
Skip Madness said:This is a massive over-simplification of a complex matter. It is not always apparent that a loved one has a problem, and there may be personal relationship issues which cloud these things. Who among us knows anything about what Tom Boonen's family and friends have done about it?
What if he told them he had stopped using it and all the evidence they saw and heard suggested he was clean?ComedyPilot said:So to say family and friends were not aware of Tom's 'problem' is a little bit naive. The worlds press knew he was up to no good.
Speculation does not really suffice in lieu of actual evidence.I can just envisage Mr & Mrs Boonen cutting clippings out of the paper, and secreting the 'dodgy' ones under the sofa.
As I said before, his loved ones may have reasonably believed that he was off the cocaine. You do not know. And personal relationship issues are not pathetic.You don't know me, or what my values are, but trust me in this, if you were a friend, or a family member, I wouldn't hide behind some pathetic 'personal issue' and stand by and see your hard fought career slip due to your liking of a bit of white.
rich p said:Cobblers IMHO, CP!
He snorts it, he's to blame.
I can see that he may need help but to blame others above himself is perverse, non?
Skip Madness said:What if he told them he had stopped using it and all the evidence they saw and heard suggested he was clean?
Speculation does not really suffice in lieu of actual evidence.
As I said before, his loved ones may have reasonably believed that he was off the cocaine. You do not know. And personal relationship issues are not pathetic.