My understanding is that through axles happened to help keep the sliding lower leg sections on suspension forks properly aligned. With rigid forks any tyre rub will be due to a combination of poorly adjusted cup & cone bearings and slack spokes rather than to axle flex.
Wheel ejection due to disc brakes does happen. In the case that happened right in front of me, it was an allen key skewer on fresh paint with no lawyer lips, the wheel had never been out of the (new) bike since collection from the maker, and every other bolt on the bike was done up gorilla tight.
Even if a QR is done up properly to start with, if you use a boutique QR with a weak grip it can loosen off in use. There are occasional forum posts asking why the top of the wheel moves sideways under braking.