Haven't read whole thread, but seems to be a bit like the bassist thread where people are citing the drummer of their favorite band 😄
I suppose, for me, I'd be looking for distinctive sounds. Stewart Copeland is right up there...you can tell its him straight away. Also Jojo Mayer, Vinnie Colaiuta (although he showboats far too much), Steve Gadd in his day, Gavin Harrison for his precision., Trilok Gurtu for originality. People like Lenny White, Tony Williams etc. Weckl has a distinctive sound, although he did go pure mulleted cheese in the 80s which is unforgiveable.
Then there are current people like Richard Spaven, Nate Smith and my favorite Yussef Dayes
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cd-ROtZ3KI
or, if you want an old Stanley tune with Pino's son on bass:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_IZI7YQLsU