I dunno. Most of my colleagues (and myself, to some extent, although my circs have changed slightly in the last year) are in similar situations - most are are renting with housemates or partners, but probably have similar feelings, or see renting as a perfectly acceptable step towards maybe one day owning.
My landlord is fine - very hands off unless needed. I've been here 4 years or so, and thanks to bikes, an allergy to hoovering and a shaky hand with a red wine glass, I'll be perfectly happy for my deposit to pay for a new carpet if and when I do move on. There are two of us middle aged women in the block of 5 flats, and I think the landlord is happy to have us as stable sensible tenants, when the other flats seem to change hands relatively often.
You have been in your flat a lot longer than four years Archer, you were living there when I had my little flat. It must be since 2004/2005. :-)