Are you possibly expecting too much too soon?
This.
OP, just give it a couple of weeks. Human bodies are very adaptable machines, so if you tweak your bike position to save your quads and you get a bit of pain in the lower back, you just need to give it a couple of weeks. The new position is causing you pain because your body is not yet used to it and probably your lower back is not yet strong enough to sustain that position. Keep riding, your lower back will get stronger and the pain will disappear.
You have taken the suggestion of moving the saddle forward and this has now caused you now an issue with your shoulders and probably have made your position on the bike worse than it was before. I haven't read the thread but I bet there's someone who will start suggesting to swap stems.
All these suggestions made by people who don't know you and mainly don't know what they're talking about are going to progressively make your position on the bike worse.
So, stop taking advice from strangers, just make one adjustment at a time and give it 2 weeks before you try another one.