I had exactly the same last weekend with my 91 year old father taken to hospital on his own .When is it going to end? We drove down to our daughter yesterday and at 2 o' clock this morning, I could feel that my wife was very unsettled. She was sitting up in bed, complaining that her neck was hurting and then a sudden pain in her left arm. We phoned an ambulance and they took her to Barnstaple hospital where she still is now suspected of a mild heart attack. She had blood tests done and we are waiting for the results so they can decide what to do next. Because of Covid, I can't even be with her and we have to wait here. Luckily she has her phone and we can speak to each other. She is in good spirit though and I am hoping she will come back later on today.
I must say our daughter is stronger than me as she has been wonderful throughout it all.
What a s**t year this is turning out to be.
Probably a stent - apparently it's amazing how they do. Injecting it into an arm & sending around to where it needs to be. They'll probably advise about exercise & healthy eating once she's home.Update on my wife. She is still in hospital but much better. She is having daily injection to thin her blood as they have discovered a blood clot which caused the heart attack. They are going to move her to Exeter hospital, hopefully tomorrow, to have a stem ( is that the right word) fitted to get rid of the clot and open up the artery. After all that, they might keep her in for observation for another day or two and then back with us I hope. The doctors have told her to take it easy from now on so we will all make sure that she does. I will also take full retirement now, no more school, so I can look after her 24/7.
Her daughter is having her op on the 15th now so we will stay with her for a bit longer. She has been wonderful throughout all this and we are so lucky to have great children.
Hopefully, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Best o'luck for all.Our daughter is going for her op tomorrow so it looks like we are going to stay here till after Christmas as she has been told she won't be able to travel for a bit, by the district nurse.
Aha! The ‘Prof’ aka Mrs Brompton Bruce (make sure you get your 10% commission)....I can highly recommend this book by Trisha Greenhalgh. She is an experienced GP who had breast cancer and she wrote this book with in conjunction with a Breast Cancer Surgeon (who also had breast Cancer).
The Complete Guide to Breast Cancer: How to Feel Empowered and Take Control: Amazon.co.uk: Greenhalgh, Professor Trisha, O’Riordan, Dr Liz: 9781785041877: Books
It explains the process in plain English, with an extensive index so that you can look for answers to your questions, without starting with paragraph one.
The other advice I was given was to avoid looking up anything on the Internet, except for the website Breast Cancer Care.