I have made it very clear I wanted road cycling shoes, instead of being recommended what I asked for, I felt like no one respected my choice.
You can ride on the road using either clipless system. I did many 000s of miles on SPDs before I had to give up clipless due to a knee that won’t bend enough!
I suggested you consider what you would do if you had a puncture or mechanical you couldn’t fix at the roadside and how you would get home. You won’t want to walk miles on road cleats.
If this will not be a concern, buy three hole road shoes that you like the look of, are in your budget, and that fit. Ultimately it’s not that different to buying any pair of shoes
If you can’t get to a shop, order a few pairs online, read reviews to gauge fit. You could ask the VV FB group, many will tell you about what they have
plus you need a pair of SPDSL pedals, they come with cleats (usually the most neutral ones) and a pedal spanner to fit them