Gear ratios are a personal choice, most modern endurance road bikes will now have a 50/34 with 11/34 cassette; using a
27" wheel traditional gear chart that equates to a comparison of lowest gear of 36" on your bike versus 27".
For sure those two numbers may not mean much to many, 36" is these days quite high but you can get up that 20% section working hard and as long as you are happy with that then that's fine. For years I toured a similar low gear to you @35"; I'm no fabulous racing whippet, but when I rode from
'Lands End to John O'groats, (LEJOG)’ I rode up every climb. In that specification I also toured the High Alps with two full panniers and again rode every climb; just, but I did it.
Although a 35" gear was OK for me on Lejog I realised when I was riding in a group I had to keep the gear turning on the climbs and ride quicker than many of my new friends, who were using lower gear ratios than me and able to ride at a slower more sociable pace, that along with wanting to take in the scenery resulted in a desire to fit a lower gear ratio. These days on my
Van Nicholas Yukon, the bike I now
use for holidays, that has a low gear of 24", which is in effect walking pace and I don't need to use it that often but like that I have it for the odd occasion I need it. I bought my Yukon in 2007 and achieving that low gear was not easy back then, I am glad to say it is now, if I were building that today I'd use a Gravel bike group with 46/30 rings and 11/34 cassette, which gives as high and as low as I need plus my favourite common used ratios in straight chainline combinations.
In conclusion it's not so much that "you have been told that's quite steep", it when you tell yourself that it is.