What are you doing? I'm 260+ LBS and don't wear pads out so fast that I'm having to twiddle anywhere near that frequently. If I have to spend 20 seconds a quarter adjusting them I'm having a bad time indeed.
No idea really, I'm 200ish lbs myself (not really sure exactly), and I do ride it quite hard, but it's my daily commuter, and gets used in all conditions and infrequently cleaned, so that may have something to do with it. Currently it's covered in sheep shoot from when I rode back along the marshes last week. I tend not to have to adjust them after long all day rides though, so it's probably in part due to being stop/start at the lights all the time when commuting, and I do quite like rocking up at the line with my rear wheel in the air.