When me and brother were young children our dad encouraged us to play with toy guns and Action Men,build dens,make bows and arrows,make model airplanes,watch war films,mirror shine our shoes,have crew cut haircuts,never look scruffy etc etc. He'd done his national service and was a stickler for discipline,yet when i wanted to join the scouts,join the Sea Cadets and do Kung Fu (popular in the mid 70's) lessons he wouldn't let me. Then when nearing the end of secondary school i toyed with the idea of joining the army,after all those years of Action Man,toy guns etc. My dad put me off the idea. I've always wondered why!🤔 I've always thought that by him not letting me mix with other children of the same interests it affected me in later life and still does.