@Mo1959 I love that you can laugh about it! I guess that's the moral of the story. A moral picked up by
@welsh dragon - good advice...
My wife (and I'm so lucky, really I am) is of the above disposition; little point worrying about anything until it happens, and even then just deal with it. She is in some respects a polar opposite - yet also a perfect fit. I wish I could be like that sometimes but I am, sadly, a natural born worrier.
Btw, I've been on blood pressure meds for years... maybe around 8. I think the biggest decline I am seeing, and the one that sets the alarm bells ringing, is that it takes me longer to get back to fitness. I could once get on my bike and do a 100km, more or less on a whim and without thinking. Those days are gone (and we're only talking 2 or 3 years ago) I need to build up to do that now.
But I ought stop my whining. All things considered, I'm in a really good place (certainly geographically). Thanks for all your kind words. I shall laugh more (something I am also naturally predisposed to!)