Reynard
Guru
- Location
- Cambridgeshire, UK
I work with people who were almost all born and bred within five miles of the office; there are very few who moved to the area as I did for the job. My sales Director, who is a well-travelled but loud, clumsy, boorish, big swinging-dick Alpha male type also born and bred in the area, talks about little other than footy and cricket. When I announced that this summer I will be retiring and moving to Scotland he looked at me in genuine puzzlement and asked: "But what are you going to do?" As if walking, climbing, wild swimming, cycling, rowing, canoeing, skiing, making stuff in our workshop, exploring Scotland and camping on Hebridean islands aren't enough. Then in a later conversation he asked me, puzzled again: "But... do you actually know anybody there?" As if you've got to know people when you move! I've got to go on an overseas trip with him next April, which I'm dreading because I've no idea what we are going to talk about.
Mmmm, there are some of us who are happy doing things that generally don't involve other people much. I know exactly where you're coming from, as I enjoy to draw and paint, do photography, cycle, cook, sew, read, write fiction and poetry and work on a motor racing archive that I maintain. I'm never bored as there's always something I can be doing.
Fortunately, most of my socialising is done at cat shows (I'm usually either judging or stewarding) so at least there is a common topic i.e. cats, regardless of how diverse other people's interests are.