Have you missed your true calling as a real estate agent?it doesn't seem utterly terrible
There's something you can do about worry. You can work these things out.On the other I worry about space, energy costs and the lack of sunlight.
So again is not seeming to be "utterly terrible" good enough?When I move it really needs to be somewhere I'm going to be happy being for the long haul as I earn sod all
Feck that! It's your money.I did consider going in really low on the asking, but want to keep the agents on-side
Nothing wrong with that. Trading off too many criteria just to have your own place may well not be a good idea in the long run.I have a fairly specific set of criteria (such as ideally direct, ground-floor access so I can keep my nicer bikes inside) which rules out a lot;
As many of you will know from my incessant bleating, I'm currently (at north of 40) living with my mother post-long-term-relationship-collapse, and dreaming of buying a flat in Oxford so that I might return to the simple, low-outgoing, cycle-centric lifestyle I crave to maintain my mental and physical health.
I'm lucky enough to have a reasonable deposit (thanks to years of saving and a not insubstantial contribution from the old dear) and have been watching the market for years. Recently (thanks to failling prices / changing sentiment / gradually growing savings) my goal has seemed increasingly achievable; if always a stretch.
A while ago I viewed a flat that's been on the market for ages. Decent part of town (if far out), secluded, small development.. on the down-side it's tiny (37m^2) with minimal storage space, has electric heating and seems very well shaded so I suspect would be quite cold and dark.
I declined to make an offer on it as I decided it was a bit too compromised and I'd subsequently seen something else that looked like a better bet (if more money so a stretch). I made an offer on the latter flat and had it rejected, since another party has apparently offered more. I'm on the fence as to how to proceed as I could potentially offer more myself, but it'd been debt up to the eyeballs and burning my intended slush fund; leaving me open to a fair amount of risk...
Back to the original flat - if I could get it for what I think is a fair price (a lot less than asking and funnily enough about the same figure the agent reckoned it was actually worth) I'd need a tiny mortgage, so I'd largely avoid all the potential risk of debt exposure in the current climate.
On the one hand I'm desperate to move out and it doesn't seem utterly terrible, even if it's tiny. On the other I worry about space, energy costs and the lack of sunlight. When I move it really needs to be somewhere I'm going to be happy being for the long haul as I earn sod all so will struggle to save once I've moved out. If I wanted to move after buying it would incur all the usual costs all over again.. plus might expose me to stamp duty depending on how government policy pans out in future.
As it stands other than my spiralling mental health / in practical terms there's an argument for sitting on my hands as flat prices in the city have been slowly drifting down for years, while the wider market is taking a hammering and while at home I can save a reasonable amount each month. That said, stuff is still selling (if slowly / at less than asking), much coming to market appears to be the dregs of ex-BTL property and who's to say what will happen to the wider market in time.
This is really no fun as it's all on me since I'm buying on my own and I'm crap at making decisions at the best of times, so I'd be interested to hear what people reckon..
Ta
I am in my 21st house and so have been in your position several times. My advice is do not buy anything that you cannot walk into and feel immediatley that it is home.
Most of my purchases have been to buy, renovate and sell on.
The house I have now was bought as a home and was decided by looking in the windows. 18 years later it was still the right decision.
Thanks - although tbh renting's right off the menu as I earn very little, it would put an absolute stop to saving even if I could afford it, and tbh I think I'd fail the affordability checks in any case. Even a very ordinary room in a shared house is ballpark £600/month, which is currently more than I'm managing to save.Could you rent until you find the right property to buy? Would get you back your independence and put you in the area you want to be
Thanks and sorry to hear of your situation - that can't have been pleasantI had a small flat 30 years ago - It was very bad for my mental health. The £300 annual maintenance charge seemed ok when I took it on - the 'extraordinary event' of painting the flats arrived a couple of years later, and they wanted 2k from each of us, and the annual charge had gone to £500 as well. It was rapidly becoming a money pit over which we all (the residents of only 24 flats) had no control. So I wouldn't want anything leasehold again. We had no support from the mortgage providers and we were being royally ripped off - eventually I handed the keys to the Bank!. I know my reaction is extreme, and maybe not typical, but I'd suggest you look at all costs involved - the oft-quoted 'ground rent' seems to be the focus of many, but is generally a 'peppercorn rent' of a few pounds a year, which is generally fixed forever - it's the spiralling maintenance costs and any 'extraordinary' ones like a roof 'needs replacing' (even if it doesn't?) or (in the case of many hi-rise ones) which have been given bills for £many thousands to remove cladding which they probably paid to be installed in the first place.
Thanks!Well the minimal storage isn't much of a downside, as you can store stuff at your mothers I assume?
heating system ca be changed, but at a cost. although bear in mind flats are much cheaper to heat than houses as your neighbours are keeping the floor and ceiling warm for you!
Obviously you need somewhere to store your bike(s)
Light is important to the feel of a place, you need a place somewhere in the flat where you can sit and be happy. location / neighbourhood is also important
When I moved post divorce the house was a compromise, but then I had to move and it was the best I'd seen, and I had a cracking man cave / bike shed built in the garden which overcame some of the lack of storage issues.
You at least have the luxury of biding your time at your mothers.
There is always demand for property in oxford, because of the size of the city, amount of students etc. so whilst you might not buy at the bottom of the dip, you aren't going to be left with a lemon.
ultimately its your decision but those are some thoughts....
This is not a decision to take lightly, I certainly wouldn’t be asking a lot of strangers on the internet about spending hundreds of thousands of pounds on a property they will never see.
If you really need someone to advise you take a friend you trust to see the property and discuss it with them.