I know a thing about metal as well and spookily 2 brothers work for major car companies and my father is a sales engineer, I myself sell tools and engineering products as well as being a bike mechanic and I don't rely on second hand stories online to tell me what oils or solvents to use.
Right product for the right job, that doesn't make WD40 useless, it's an excellent frame saver, it cleans and protects paint work as well, the latest variant has a teflon content in that makes it good for flushing out cable outer and lubing STI shifers.
There is no one product that damages bikes because it's a bad product, just cack handedness in application.
I'm not interested in playing top trumps with who does what but I am interested in stupid myths not being spread through the knowledge section.