I always feel it’s helpful to discuss a post in its entirety rather than individual sentences taken out of context but I’ll try to respond clearly.
If anyone wants the context, they can click the little up arrow at the top of the quote. I feel it's helpful to trim quotes to what's actually being discussed.
My feeling would be it is impossible for any club of any type (Cycling, football, Bridge) to accommodate all abilities.
That seems to contradict the earlier claim:
We feel this caters for everyone.
I think a club can accommodate all abilities but it's very rare among cycling clubs.
I’ve always been a strong believer if one thinks something needs changing then one should get involved and help make that change. If you feel your local clubs don’t offer rides for which you perceive a demand may I suggest approaching the Club Secretary and ask how you could get involved with providing the ride.
I am involved with what's basically a transport and touring club, but it is irritating when local clubs aimed at faster sports-style riders claim to cater for everyone when they don't and all sorts of isms are rife. It surely doesn't help anyone to have riders turn up to clubs and get dropped or have people grousing about being cold or held up or be taken aside for a quiet word to discourage them from turning up to that type of ride again.
I feel our group is far more open about the existence of other groups with other types of ride than they are about us (I just checked the website of the oldest local sports cycling club and there's still no link to us) - is this because they want to get at least one annual membership fee out of newbies whereas we don't use that financial model?
Unfortunately you’ve mixed up the weekend rides with the Tuesday training rides.
OK. Which rides have six groups then? Is this made clearer on the group's website?
I’m not sure who you want asked? Non members? Our rides constantly evolve to accommodate what members are asking for.
Asking non-members seems a good idea if you really want to cater for everyone rather than only cater for all members. Also, asking people who joined for a year and then quit (or even asking new members who stop before their paid year's up) would seem like a good idea for inclusion and renewals and even just keeping a good feeling about the club... but actually, I'm just as happy if you're honest and say that you feel it's impossible to cater for everyone, as at least then there's no false hope.
IIt’s difficult to understand why you suggest there is a “threat.” I feel I’m clear all that happens is a rider would be quietly and privately asked if they feel the Ride is the right one for them. If that’s a threat I’m a little taken aback.
It all depends how it's actually done, but being taken to one side for a quiet word is the sort of euphemism used to cover things like shouting at people that their cycling is "no good to man nor beast" which is what one club leader did to a small group of us on a so-called "newcomers" ride. Most of us never rode with that club again, as far as I know. I can see it's great not to do it noisily as some sort of announcement with everyone's full attention, but why does it need to be done in private rather than in the open so the subject can call for help if they feel they need it?
Have you never suffered being taken to one side for that sort of quiet word?