This is a moot point.
Both my youngsters made cards. I took the youngest out and we bought a host of garden lovelies to be planted including her favourite "Margeuerite" flowering bush. She fell asleep for two hours on Saturday p.m. during the rugby which means I missed much of it as I looked after the kids, made tea, etc. She got breakfast in bed on Sunday. And I potted up all the plants with the kids and planted some hardy perennials in some gaps we have. Then we had the mother-in-law round for lunch on her request (which actually was quite nice for a change). I spent ten minutes at the cemetery with my Mum. But it still wasn't enough, apparently. I should have made the lunch as well (Roast Turkey, trimmings) or instead of potting up her pressies.
Was it wrong to point out that she wasn't my mother?