Yeah but.....Sounds like the bland advice we hear from cycle shops all the time....' "Ideally" sir, you need to buy this Shimano spec'd spare - that'll be £40 please.'ideally the sizes should match.....
Do you know what I mean? And why forums like this are such a useful source of insight - if we are honest with each other.
What is the fact on clamp size mixing? Ideally it should be the same, but IS .2 mm enough to effect a quill clamp integrity?
(Martin C suggested it is an old practise)
Personally, I don't think that I'd try anything greater than that .2mm difference.