Thanks again I’m seriously gonna consider leaving it for now thx will keep you updatedI quickly edited my post as I saw yours. You can only try it but I would never buy a bike too big. Is your height on your torso with short leg shoes or vice versa. If you have a very long back and arms it might be less of an issue, but I still wouldn't go there (I'm 5'10, height in legs and all my bikes have a 54cm top tube)
If the seller is much taller than you, don't feel bad about not seeing it, you'd be wasting everyone's time