Unless you need to ride to get somewhere, I'd wait. I'd also try to figure out why it hurts, but I know a lot of people say about how it always hurts when you start riding and breaking your backside in. I'm not sure I agree with that, but then I dissent on loads of saddle/padding-related stuff. I don't remember a sore bum (sore legs when I increased distance, yes - sore bum, no) but it's been sooooo long since I started riding (aged 5 or something - I'm unusual for my age in never really stopping riding) that I might have just forgotten.Should I wait till tomorrow before getting back on to give my butt time to heal or get back on today and try to work through the pain barrier?
As your confidence grows you will get your seat sorted. When I came back to riding, my saddle was a smidge low for about the first week. Once I'd cracked 4 or 5 miles, my knees were growling so that saddle went up.Thanks all for your advice. Riding in ordinary shoes with ordinary pedals. Will up it a little each time s confidence grows. I was very shaky when I set out today but soon settled better than I expected.
+1With all due respect, it's not hubby riding your bike it's you.
Do it your way until you get your confidence and then go higher as and when you feel comfortable doing so.
If you don't have confidence it'll stop you going out on your bike.
+1He is right but you need to feel comfortable and confident. I had a bike fit, fitter put saddle so high I really struggled when stopping on way home from fitting! I lowered a little and found a happy medium (important as I have dodgy knees). Try to find a height that is reasonable and perhaps practice getting foot down while leaning the bike (how I do it), or sliding off the saddle (personally I can't do this, especially when clipped in). I can reach the ground tippy toed when leaning the bike a little. I also have very tight calves which compounds the stretching to the ground issue
As above, make minor incremental increases until you feel comfortable and the saddle is closer the optimal height (approx with knee slightly bent when heel on pedal)