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Jenkins

Legendary Member
Location
Felixstowe
No don't please vent!!
It's more of a case of not posting even more gibberish than normal.

A good night appeared to be had by all that turned up especially as the buffet was funded by management along with a generous drinks kitty. There's more than a couple of people that will be gratefull that they're not on the early shift on Monday.

Wet & windy 2.5 mile walk home thanks to missing the last train home as I was having a good time and cold hands as I couldn't put them in my coat pockets due to somehow having 'obtained' a couple of nice "Ice Breaker" pint glasses :laugh:
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classic33

Leg End Member
Wasn't that a Guinness advert back in the day? :scratch:
This one?

View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9znA_dwjHw
 

classic33

Leg End Member
It's more of a case of not posting even more gibberish than normal.

A good night appeared to be had by all that turned up especially as the buffet was funded by management along with a generous drinks kitty. There's more than a couple of people that will be gratefull that they're not on the early shift on Monday.

Wet & windy 2.5 mile walk home thanks to missing the last train home as I was having a good time and cold hands as I couldn't put them in my coat pockets due to somehow having 'obtained' a couple of nice "Ice Breaker" pint glasses :laugh:
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I disagree with your analysis (which seems a common one) in that you perceive shyness as a problem or a negative character trait. Where as introverts are happy with who they are and thier social interactions. I don't think shyness should have such negative connotation?

That's not my analysis: I''m working from the official definition which is generally accepted by the psychological community that Shyness is based around a fear of negative social judgement causing a lack of confidence with strangers. That's why my post says things like "is defined as" and "is considered to be". What I think is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.

Shyness is considered a trait though, which my post doesn't make clear.

It is generally agreed that if a person self-limits their activities based on fear then it's negative for them.

That said, if someone is shy and has a fulfilled life then there is no reason to force them to change; the problem is simply when it affects them negatively.

Introversion isn't based on fear, but a preference for low stimulation. In fact there's evidence that there is a neurological difference in the way the brain processes incoming information which can be helpful in some situations, but in the world we live in can feel overwhelming. I've heard it described as a "social battery" which goes down fast in social situations.

There are also separate issues like High Sensory Sensitivity which is connected to the amount of information that an individual can filter and process; people with HSS don't filter sensory information so they are often acutely, even intensely aware of their surroundings. This can lead to avoiding social situations because they not only are aware of sounds but also the emotions of people around them and when you are subconsciously aware of the emotions of even a dozen people it's a bit overwhelming.

On the other side there is Social Anxiety which is defined as an overwhelming fear of humiliation in social contexts and which is considered a mental illness or a mental disorder. ETA: it could be argued that a lot of what we call "Shyness" is in fact a manifestation of SA.
 
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tom73

Guru
Location
Yorkshire
Much more milder early this morning dog now walked, fed and now fast on in bed.
Now just waiting for the chuckle chocolate orange cookies to come out the oven.
Only make them at Christmas and they never disappoint my mate will be round he always call for one or two or....
Good job I make extra.
 
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