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No, you didnā€™t miss a post. I was too depressed to even comment on it when I got back. The interview (the talking part) went OK, but Iā€™m not sure I would fit in though. One of the interviewers didnā€™t even bother to shake my hand before I left and didnā€™t seem to be bothered (did in fact make several sarcastic comments) - and she would be the one person I would be working with every single day. As for the place itself, one word sums it up: grim. They had no sense of privacy or security - I was left in a room with the name of every learner currently on programme on a large whiteboard in front of me, and there were piles of confidential paperwork piled up around the room.

Whatā€™s most depressing is that should I be offered a job there, Iā€™ll probably accept as Iā€™ve been trying to get a new job for 12 months now, applying and attending interviews, but no one wanting to take me on. Should I be offered a job and accept, it wonā€™t stop me sending new applications off. In fact, it would be a great incentive to apply far more often!

Like many on this forum, Iā€™m an introvert. So when the employer was telling me about all the ā€˜fun social activitiesā€™ they do out of work, I was cringing inside. Especially when she said that all the staff go and nobody misses.

Apologies for the long, whinging post. I feel like Iā€™m between a rock and a hard place, and the gap between both is getting smaller and smaller.

I find out after next Wednesday if they want me in for a taster session for a few hours.

Oh buQQer. Pardon my French.

What sort of work are you applying for, if you don't mind me asking?

Introversion is a great thing, but sometimes in a world designed for Extroverts it can be hard to be ourselves. I recently walked away from a job because one of the things they were animatedly discussing in the staff meeting was the staff social life and a training weekend. No thanks.

Thankfully getting smashed is less of a feature of going out here, but I still don't generally take part in the 'wonderful' social events unless I trust the team or in the case of my college, they were part of college time. Learning that I could say no was an important step, also that there are real neurological differences between introverts and extroverts, so it's not that I'm making stuff up or being silly.

All the best as you navigate your way forward...
 

LeetleGreyCells

Un rouleur infatigable
Oh buQQer. Pardon my French.

What sort of work are you applying for, if you don't mind me asking?

Introversion is a great thing, but sometimes in a world designed for Extroverts it can be hard to be ourselves. I recently walked away from a job because one of the things they were animatedly discussing in the staff meeting was the staff social life and a training weekend. No thanks.

Thankfully getting smashed is less of a feature of going out here, but I still don't generally take part in the 'wonderful' social events unless I trust the team or in the case of my college, they were part of college time. Learning that I could say no was an important step, also that there are real neurological differences between introverts and extroverts, so it's not that I'm making stuff up or being silly.

All the best as you navigate your way forward...
Iā€™ve always worked in education until the last few years. Not as a teacher, but as Careers Education, ESOL tutor and trainer. Iā€™m also a qualified cycling coach which Iā€™d love to take further, but not many opportunities there other than volunteer (which I do now with a Go Ride club). I build websites at the moment, but (ironically for an introvert) I miss working with people. And need to earn more (cycling can be expensive!).
 
Had a good night's sleep in the company of a cat (Lexi) and a non-leaking hot water bottle that I found in the back of the bathroom cupboard. Feel much more chipper today.

Am about to slope off for lunch in a bit as I am reporting a hungry. I have some rather fine marinated anchovies that I picked up on YS to go with some lovely fresh wholemeal bread. :hungry: I might have some gruyere with that bread too...
 
To be honest I dread social activities here as they generally involve going out to get hammered, not my thing :headshake:

Not mine either - a right pain when you're teetotal. I resent it when it's a "split the bill" kind of thing, because I really don't see why I should pay for other people to get baddered if all I'm having is a cup of tea...

Ergo I'd rather stay at home and have a good night in.
 
Quite, it only last 1.5 miles before I turned around, pain in my back, pain in my right knee unable to rotate right leg out of cleats, luckily I could get my left out which is my bad leg. So hobbled back, looks like it'll be in the For Sale section later.

Ouch. I'm sorry to hear that. it sounds like a 'recovery evening' is called for before you make a decision.
 

postman

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Back from my annual eye test.This was good because my watching telly glasses broke last week.So i was able to kill two birds with one stone.Being my telly glasses i wanted a cheapo pair.After the annual test,i sorted some out.The sales tried to sell me a pair for Ā£148.Sorry cheap frame one lens cos i only have one good eye,and then the other lens needs scratching so i cannot see out of it.Doing that stops the double vision,and seeing how i don't need reactalight you can take that off the price.So agreed on Ā£78-50.Optician found swollen blood vessels in good eye,so i had to pop in to the Doctors for a blood pressure test,and yes my blood pressure is up,another test in three weeks to see if it's down.Busy doing nothing day.
 
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