I don't mean to cause offence, as your post's clearly quite thought out and reasonable, and therefore warrants a similarly thought out reply. But I'm afraid I must remind you that I don't know you, care what you think, or want your sympathy - it sounds as if you feel the opposite should be the case. Hopefully though your continued involvement in the forum will change the first two.Gary D said:bonj,
I joined this forum pretty much as soon as it started but generally lurk. However, I now feel compelled to post.
Over the past couple of weeks, I had started to develop a modicum of sympathy for you as some of your postings put forward relatively sane and sensible arguments. I could not fully understand the underlying scorn that some posters clearly had for you - as I too am relatively new to both cycling and forums, and am unaware of the "history" behind these feelings.
However, after reading your repsonse to cyclebum's posting above, I can honestly say that in a millisecond, it all suddenly became clear to me!

When have I said I'm judging her for what bike she's riding? At worst I'm judging the bike she's riding, not her the rider - at best just making a flippant comment.Gary D said:You are clearly an incredibly shallow, insecure person if you judge someone purely on the bike they happen to be riding.
I would, but I wouldn't expect you to nod back as most riders of poncey expensive road bikes in the full coloured lycra get-up generally don't - they prefer to look down their nose.Gary D said:For a start, everyone has to start somewhere. Do I take it that if I happened to see you when out on my £800 road bike you might nod to me?
I'd still nod at you. But I wouldn't imagine the same could be said for most roadies.Gary D said:But then the next day, if I was riding my £300 CB Hybrid, you would simply ignore me because you viewed it as "shite"?
They are my observations of the attitudes of most of the road-bike riders that I see. It also explains why the argumentGary D said:The comments that you make are totally unnecessary and extremely negative. They definitely do not reflect the general attitude of the cyclists I have come across since taking up the sport.
is completely meaningless - because what I'm suggesting is that what bike you're riding and what you look like unfortunately influences the likeliness of a lot of road cyclists of giving a nod or a wave or a hello. It doesn't alter my chances of giving you a nod or a wave or a hello, but I'm not most cyclists."Other cyclists never nod at anyone - I've never seen them."
"Well you're wrong, there - they always nod at me!"
The attitude I'm complaining about is the competitiveness and apparent jealousy of a lot of roadies - evident by the way they sneer at me when I'm on a bike that looks like it might be as expensive as theirs. I certainly don't do this myself! If I see someone on a six grand bike, I'll give them a nod of great respect, but I'll still give a nod to someone on a hundred-and-sixty quid hybrid. The fact that I'm simply making an observation of a type of bike snobbery does not make me a bike snob myself.Gary D said:You really can't seem to comprehend that the very attitude you claim is unique to roadies relating to bike snobbery - and then go on to criticise them for - is exactly the same attitude you have exhibited in your reply above!!![]()
I'm not even generalising and saying ALL roadies do this - only that a lot do. Why else when I give a nod to a roadie, and he sneers down his nose, would I still bother giving the next one a nod (which I do)?
I haven't seen any MTBers do this though, that's not prejudice, but just my experience - I can't help that!
I think the reason a lot of roadies exhibit this type of snobbery is that they feel they should look the sleekest, best, cyclist on the road with the most expensive bike and gear - and if they think this position of status might be at all threatened they don't like that. But I don't actually care what I look like, to be honest.
There doesn't have to be, but it seems there unfortunately is.Gary D said:Please tell me - why does there have to be a distinction between "roadies" and MTB'ers?? Surely we are all CYCLISTS?