None of us are club riders, but I agree with what you are saying. I expect to keep up with them because I'm very active, but forget that my muscles aren't used to cycling. I might be better cycling alone, as I always overdid it when running to try and keep to the pace of the fastest, and suspect cycling will be more of the same. Its nice to cycle with friends though, especially on longer routes.
Hi and welcome!
As one can gather from my user name, I'm not the fastest
Well, that is actually not correct ... anymore
it was true when I registered on CC 2 years ago.
Like you, I took up cycling to commute. As there were hardly any cyclist in my area (that has changed too), and the rare ones that I encountered were male, I never considered speed. Cycling to work was faster than the bus, that was sufficient.
Then I joined a local ladies leisure riders group, imagine, they were actively seeking hills to incorporate in the ride! It was an eye opener, cycling for fitness, improving ones performance. I was never a sporty type, if I wanted to keep riding with them for the social side I had to start putting in a wee bit of effort
Many miles later I became one of the fastest of the group.
Speed is all relative though: some more miles later I went on a local Cycle Chat ride, suddenly I'm the slowest again!
I ride heavy hybrids with slick tyres, recently got a road bike but need to learn to ride it. No doubt I'm still gonna be the slowest on the road bike ... because I will be riding with a faster group
Get to know you cycling comfort zone: if you consistently challenge it you will become faster.
From your OP it seems you are quite competitive, maybe join Strava?
Forgot: you don't say your age, if I had an adult daughter I would expect her to be faster than me!