Yes, insurance to protect you and your vehicle if you are at fault (or due to fire, theft) and a third party vehicle, individual, property if you are at fault. Plus VED, servicing, maintenance, fuel. I do not believe that being financially disadvantaged because someone else was at fault shouid be part of the reality.
Yep this - although am grown up to know we live in an imperfect world.
Have suffered similarly from an incident last year. Pedestrian ran out in front of me whilst on motorbike. Clear open road, driving at below the legal speed in good conditions, she ran out from a blind drive entrance, and by her admission totally her fault as she was looking for her bus coming the other way. Absolutely no way I could have prevented it or seen it coming. No injuries (how I still don't know, but I guess my emergency braking wasn't too bad) but £1,800 of damage to my motorbike.
Insurers have no one to claim off so it has to go down as a fault claim to me. Result is hiked premiums for motorbike, plus car in my name and another I'm a named driver on. This despite 25 years or road use and never having had a single incident or claim in that time. Fair? - no. Does it make me a higher risk - not in my eyes, but it does to insurer's and their algorithms.
I could rant and rave about the injustice etc. Or I can put it down to "life", or "one of those things", just be grateful that no one was hurt and move on. I chose the latter.
It's the first time I've had to call on insurance - and really that's what it's there for.
Edit: and sorry to the OP - it's getting a bit off topic. Hope you heal up and are back on the bike soon. Kudos for being so straight about what happened