Chuffy said:
I think you're mostly right mjones. The problem with having an unmoderated area, not publicly viewable, is that it's a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy. Build it and they will come, so to speak. I would have thought/hoped that you could have serious debate and casual chat within the same area, eg the Cafe. That's the way is used to be on C+ and it seemed to work, the serious threads were pretty much self-modding. Soapbox always had a reputation as a bit of a bear pit from the day of it's creation on C+ and it's got worse since. That's not intended as a knock at the way Shaun has set this place up, but maybe it's worth having a bit of a re-think. I don't think it adds anything of value beyond giving people who have little or no interest in anything else a venue to knock lumps out of each other (see the current Bunfight between Linford and Absinthe Minded for example...)
When you are being verbally abused in every thread, it is easy to become drawn into it and fire it back (thank you MrP for pulling me up on it).
As for swear filters, It is easy overcome them as AM does on a regular basis. The only way of dealing with this following an unheeded warning is a temporary ban or permanent if it is continually abused/ignored. This is the way I deal with it on the forums I moderate and admin on. You make the rules Shaun and we have to follow them. I have no issue with this.
As for my ongoing spat with AM, he comes across to me as overtly agressive, and a bit of a bully, I'll not allow him to browbeat me with this type of behaviour, so a defence of my position is always to be expected.
I offered him an olive branch to cool it down the other day as I could see he was losing it, but he knocked me back with another foul mouthed rant
Why ??.
In repect to Shauns position which I fully appreciate, I will not respond to any of AMs abuse outside the soapbox, but I will ask if they can be moved, locked or deleted if they cause offence to those who don't want to see it.
LLB