1) Wasting the last year of my life with a girl who loved me, but neurotically controlled my life, and even more than that the neglect my closest friends felt as I obeyed her. The same friends who are now standing with me as strong as before.
2) The scars on my arms that bear testimony to my failure to seek help.
3) Walking out of a threesome with the 2 hottest girls I have ever met, thinking that I was extraneous to affairs... Falling asleep with my phone on silent... Waking up to find texts and missed calls wanting me back in the room.