Thank you all very much, I really am very moved by all your good wishes , it'll be a while till I come down from cloud 9! I have to admit to a few prayers over recent months - never thought I'd do that but when your backs against the wall.....
I promised if all turned out ok we'd have some Salsa lessons.... too late to recant now, pass me the anti embarrassment tablets! (as soon as I sober up)