black'n'yellow
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However you have a few things in your favour, 1 - the length of stem in the head is usually quite short and 2 - you have a lot of leverage available via the 'bars for a firm twisting action. Try not to use the wheel for the other half of this.
quill stems usually extend a good length into the steerer. If this is a case of galvanic corrosion (which seems likely), then twisting it with enough force to release it will probably end up snapping the stem first.
If all else fails and the wedge is firmly stuck in the steering tube then remove the front wheel, into the bottom of the head tube insert a drift (large screwdriver may do, and then hammer this upwards which should free the wedge. Make sure that you clean and grease the wedge and inside of the steering tube when re-assembling.
The fork in the pic has a lugged crown - it's very unlikely there will be an opening at the end of it.