I did have comfort problems with non-bibs. Maybe a softer waist band would have done the trick for me too if I had shopped around? I am used to bibs now so I will stick to them, except when wearing my Endura Humvee baggies. They are pretty heavy duty and have liner shorts so they are very warm on sunny days, but cosy on cooler days, and would solve the OP's peeing problem!I've never had an issue with waist shorts, and I'm not exactly trim round the midriff. I go for good quality brands that have a softer waist band and are snug but comfortable. And bib shorts just look horrific on me, I have tried a couple of pairs on in the past
That's my issue. I remember learning to ski in salopettes and the drama of having to take EVERYTHING off to pee!It's a faff!! Nothing more disconcerting than sitting in a public loo with just your bra on after having to strip your jacket off, jersey off and finally the straps of the bibs off........ and by this point your dancing!
Full skin suits are a pain as you can bet your bottom dollar that you'll need the loo just before a time trial.
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