drinking on the bike comes with practice, as does blowing your nose, I always carry a tissue in a jersey pocket, can't bring myself to 'snot rocket'!
Schedule an actual stop in the middle, be it a bench, cafe etc - somewhere you can properly stop, get off, fully recover and then set off again. Don't allow yourself to stop any other time (other than junctions!).
Going out with a friend is good advice, you'll be distracted and won't realise how far/fast you're going, and also if theres an ounce of competitive spirit in you you won't want to be the weaker one of the pair!
Try a different route, or change your mentality - sounds like you've already allowed this one to beat you in your head. If you do the same route decide at the beginning to really attack it, I don't mean go out hell for leather and keel over after half a mile, I mean mentally declare you won't be beaten by the route!
There is a hilly area (for Suffolk!) near me that I used to avoid all the while, I'd go miles further to go a flatter route as I'd struggled with it so much in the past. Then one day I went out with someone far better than me, following along having no say in the route, she headed for this hilly section and I knew I had to just get on with it and it went much better than I'd expected, the boost of confidence now means I choose to go this way and attack the hills rather than dread them!
Schedule an actual stop in the middle, be it a bench, cafe etc - somewhere you can properly stop, get off, fully recover and then set off again. Don't allow yourself to stop any other time (other than junctions!).
Going out with a friend is good advice, you'll be distracted and won't realise how far/fast you're going, and also if theres an ounce of competitive spirit in you you won't want to be the weaker one of the pair!
Try a different route, or change your mentality - sounds like you've already allowed this one to beat you in your head. If you do the same route decide at the beginning to really attack it, I don't mean go out hell for leather and keel over after half a mile, I mean mentally declare you won't be beaten by the route!
There is a hilly area (for Suffolk!) near me that I used to avoid all the while, I'd go miles further to go a flatter route as I'd struggled with it so much in the past. Then one day I went out with someone far better than me, following along having no say in the route, she headed for this hilly section and I knew I had to just get on with it and it went much better than I'd expected, the boost of confidence now means I choose to go this way and attack the hills rather than dread them!