mudsticks
Obviously an Aubergine
What is wrong with how an average 51 year old woman looks?
Absolutely nothing in my opinion.
But there are plenty who seem to expect women pop stars (or often women in general) to spend a lot of time and effort on maintaining their youthful looks and figure.
But the same standards are not applied equally to guys.
I think you might already know this, but it does seem to need spelling out every five minutes, or it easily gets forgotten.