What puzzles me with many of these carriers is why they leave a card saying they've tried to deliver and will try again tomorrow.
This might be a perfectly reasonable thing to do in a B2B business-to-business model, but if B2C business-to-consumer the likelihood is that you weren't in because you were at work and will be again tomorrow, so all they'll do is fail to deliver a second time : what a waste of effort !
So they fail to deliver twice, you ring them to rearrange delivery and are told they only deliver weekdays between 9 and 5, when you're not in because you're at work, won't deliver on Saturdays because the sender didn't pay for Saturday delivery, so yes your only alternative is to collect from the depot - I've gone 5 miles for some parcels, 30 for others, told them to stuff it and send it back with others.
At least with Royal Mail you can collect from the sorting office.
But whilst a Royal Mail division, Parcel Farce are no different to City Link, Reality (or whatever TNT or White Start or whatever they call themselves this week), etc.