I can understand that; I also find the whole business of presents, both finding them for others and receiving them, rather stressful.
Having 8 nephews and nieces, 2 gt. nephews, plus parents... it was getting very costly, so I decided to stop buying my friends Xmas gifts about 10 years ago to keep the costs below £150. Knock on is my friends stopped buying for me... which is great because it's just tat I neither want nor need. Now my nephews and nieces are mostly over 18, I don't feel obliged to buy for them anymore so it's just my mother, the 2 gt nephews, and maybe a bit of something for my brother and sister, but only if i see something I actually want to give them.