The last house before this one , was a damp derelict which I did up whilst living at the in-laws and I spent every available hour on it, and I did most of the easy manual stuff on that myself including removing the plaster off every wall , pulling down and putting up all the ciellings, rewired the place myself ( before everything had to be certified) most of the plumbing, tiling etc as I am fairly handy. the house before that I did the entire kitchen myself.
21 years later and after my divorce I bought another dump ( wires hanging out of the walls, holes in the kitchen ceiling due to leak from bathroom , previous owner had started wrecking the place ready for refurb but had to sell sharpish) thinking I will have it ship shape in no time. Over a year later and I have not even lifted a paint brush. I have now gone sod it and am sick of living in a heap, ( girlfriend does not like it either) builder starts in a fortnight for at least 2 weeks, complete new kitchen, lots of plastering , complete re-wire etc while I go and stay at the girlfiend's house.
For me time is at a premium and I have a really busy working and social life now. I want to walk out and come back in 2 weeks to a mainly new bright modern interior, but I have left some decorating jobs for my girlfriend on the GF's insistence to save money. ( I cant paint above chest height as I have a mashed shoulder joint)
When I retire I will probably go back to being a DIY'r but at the moment, too much to do !