gel seats can too soft, ime
"worth it or waste" is only really something you can answer for yourself AFTER you've bought and worn the bibs on your rides.
I don't think my Assos shorts are a 'waste', because they are comfortable and they work. Equally, my cheaper dhb bibs work and were significantly cheaper. Ditto my ages old
Nike bibs. Do I ride around in the Assos full of regret, thinking 'what a waste of money'? Hell no! Quite the opposite. They're lush!
But I have learnt that I personally don't need to pay Assos prices to achieve a level of comfort that I find acceptable. In today's market that tends to be around the £100 mark.
The only time I've thought 'what a waste' is with stuff that hasn't worked for me - and that does tend to be cheap stuff. I'm thinking of some Ozzo bibs I bought many moons ago. So, by extension, I include Aldi/Lidl and Tenn etc. Yes, I do use price as a first level indicator to quality and performance. YMMV.