A road bike is built to be used with drop bars, thus the geometry accomodates riding this way, by putting your elbows on the handlebars you are leaning much further forward and the hip angle is closed. If you were this far forward while using drop bars, it would only be during an all out sprint or climbing a hill, hence you would be out of the saddle and leaned forward which opens up the hip angle. Tri bars are made to be used when seated so to open up the hip angle a tri bike or modified road bike would have the saddle pushed forward over the bottom bracket and raised a bit to account for it. The front end might also be lowered and a longer or shorter stem used to adjust possition. This makes tri possition comfy, aero and powerrful but makes normal riding possitions uncomfortable.
There are many guides for tri possition, general rule is, side on photo, line from ankle to hip, hip to shoulder and shoulder to elbow. All lines should be roughtly 90 degree's to each other.
Like i said if you get touring/audax clip-on's they are less low profile and aggressive and dont require much if any adjustment to bike. Vorsprung on here uses them I think.