Do friends...

[ChrisW]

Hm i'll just add that some of my male friends are absolutely gorgeous and at times I am thankful that I have a very good degree of moral fortitude and know how to behave myself...

Kirstie, we all, and i hope i can speak for God here as well, will definitley forgive you if you ever do lapse. Just let us know when you fortitude is weakening and we'll be there to help...

 

[Cycling Naturalist]

Kirstie, we all, and i hope i can speak for God here as well, will definitley forgive you if you ever do lapse. Just let us know when you fortitude is weakening and we'll be there to help...

And if you want to make sure that your fortitude is strong, how about meeting up this weekend for a meal and a few drinks?

 

[yenrod]

Cue Affair'...

The GF and and her friend her now husband have totlay disagreed on this: with the men saying 'a man will simply try and get in to said knickers' yet women saying 'no, its just friends and we know between us that boundaries exist' ! Yeah right, pull the other one; sorry not that one but - you get the gist.

Men and Women CANNOT be friends because they will simply want to **** each other at some point during the relationship...

And anyone who thinks the opposite is FOOLING themselves....!

Hm i'll just add that some of my male friends are absolutely gorgeous and at times I am thankful that I have a very good degree of moral fortitude and know how to behave myself...

 

[Cycling Naturalist]

Cue Affair'...

The GF and and her friend her now husband have totlay disagreed on this: with the men saying 'a man will simply try and get in to said knickers' yet women saying 'no, its just friends and we know between us that boundaries exist' ! Yeah right, pull the other one; sorry not that one but - you get the gist.

Men and Women CANNOT be friends because they will simply want to **** each other at some point during the relationship...

And anyone who thinks the opposite is FOOLING themselves....!

It's perfectly possible for a chap to like a woman as a personality and for them to be friends, but to find her physically unnattractive. Obviously this would not apply in Kirstie's case.

 

[Kirstie]

So, there was really no need for you to post the question then.

I didn't post the question , it was yenners...
Believe me the old moral fortitude has been tested and it definitely works!!

 

[Cycling Naturalist]

I didn't post the question , it was yenners...
Believe me the old moral fortitude has been tested and it definitely works!!

But did it work before you got the tape measure out?

 

[Kirstie]

Long long long before...and that's all I'm going to say on the matter.

 

[Cycling Naturalist]

Long long long before...and that's all I'm going to say on the matter.

Yenners immediately loses interest in becoming friends with Kirstie.

 

[Gunner Rodgers]

Yekners

Is there something you're not telling us


Are you "after me" you great big sweetie

 

[yenrod]

All these threads I think up are merely just thoughts..

And Gunner, I can assure you unless you have a pair of tits and a vagina then you can forget it !

 

[Arch]

Men and Women CANNOT be friends because they will simply want to **** each other at some point during the relationship...

And anyone who thinks the opposite is FOOLING themselves....!

What a sad life you must lead. I have male friends I have no intention of ****ing as you so nicely put it. And I'm fairly sure most of them have no intention of doing it with me either. But they're good friends. In fact more of my best friends, now I come to think about it, are men.

 

[Cycling Naturalist]

What a sad life you must lead. I have male friends I have no intention of ****ing as you so nicely put it. And I'm fairly sure most of them have no intention of doing it with me either. But they're good friends. In fact more of my best friends, now I come to think about it, are men.

I think a distinction has to be drawn between people who fancy each other but can't/won't do anything about it because of other relationships, and friendships where the parties don't fancy each other physically but get on very well otherwise.

 

[yenrod]

Well, Arch - you must not view life very physically

By the way..I do not lead a sad life as you so elegantly phrase it'..

What a sad life you must lead. I have male friends I have no intention of ****ing as you so nicely put it. And I'm fairly sure most of them have no intention of doing it with me either. But they're good friends. In fact more of my best friends, now I come to think about it, are men.

 

[Arch]

I think a distinction has to be drawn between people who fancy each other but can't/won't do anything about it because of other relationships, and friendships where the parties don't fancy each other physically but get on very well otherwise.

Yup, true. And I can say that yes, I have friends in both those situations. But that still means I have male friends I don't want to sleep with.

Yenrod - no I don't view life very physically, I suppose. I do think it's sad if you have to rule out half the population as potential friends because you think you'll want to sleep with them.

 

[Kirstie]

I think a distinction has to be drawn between people who fancy each other but can't/won't do anything about it because of other relationships, and friendships where the parties don't fancy each other physically but get on very well otherwise.

Indeed: the whole thing imo is based on care and respect. It's normally a healthy degree of respect for the 'target' (ha ha) and their life, and your own, and the people within it that prevents any naughtiness. It's actually more caring and respectful not to dive into the sack with someone who is 'a friend but they're attached to someone else' even if they make your pants fizz like a firework.

[through clenched teeth]
THINK RESPECT
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