stowie
Legendary Member
We are in this situation - wife in tears today. MIL phoning in tears most days. We've just been allowed to stand in the car pak from tomorrow - MrsF got the email, so sent it to her sisters, then was gazumped by her sister - SIL goes tomorrow, my missus can't go for at least another week - 1 family person per week. MIL's mental health is in bits. Her body is knackered but she's a tough old boot upstairs. Spending your last years in a prison charging £1000 a week and not allowing you to see your family from behind glass in a building whilst you are outside....
That's what hisses me off about the ' I'll carry on as I please'. We aren't, for the sake of a chance to visit MIL - I've not seen her for 7 months, but keep myself safe, so my wife can go. Oh and the visitors are temperature checked (in the ruddy car park where they stay). The home has been far from perfect as they have had a raft of deaths from Covid.
Really sorry to hear about your situation. I hope it improves in the near future, and that the visiting schedules become less restrictive.