Hi all and thanks for your comments - well, except for the public school reference @Tenacious Sloth :-)
Last night my backside was very sore and weeping and the shower had me gritting my teeth.
I had a poor nights sleep but today it seems a little better and dry. I can at least sit down again.
The redness is still very clear and pad shaped but I think it looks worse than it feels now.
I haven’t put anything on it.
+1 to the above.The reason your pad is not protecting you is because your bib shorts don’t fit. They could be the wrong size or just cheap.
They must be tight, this means the pad is not too forward or too back. Nothing worn underneath and nothing over the top.
It is also likely that you’re not sitting on the saddle properly. With your sit bones planted properly taking all the weight there should be minimal movement. If your are rolled forward, the weight on your perineum will become excruciating.
A bike fit will help you find the right riding position.
Purely personal, but for me I think getting the right saddle and right riding position is way more important than getting the right padded shorts. In fact, I've never worn padded (or even proper cycling) shorts, and I'm currently riding in simple cotton/polyester shorts from Primark (which I think cost around £4). But I do have a Brooks Cambium saddle, and I've spent time micro-adjusting it to fit properly.It is also likely that you’re not sitting on the saddle properly. With your sit bones planted properly taking all the weight there should be minimal movement. If your are rolled forward, the weight on your perineum will become excruciating.
A bike fit will help you find the right riding position.
Is she lovingly applying it or is it a case of cream your own bits ?A quick update to this for those kind enough to offer advice.
A visit to the Specialized store in Nottingham was interesting. I talked frankly with the person there who measured me for a saddle and told me the one I have is the one they would recommend.
However, they said perhaps my shorts are getting tired as I've had them a couple of years and wear them all the time. So I came away with a pair of Endura FS260PRO shorts which I'll test on a 60mile ride tomorrow and a 100 miler on Monday, along with a copious coating of Bum Butter
My arse - well thats recovering nicely and I yesterday - 5 days after the ride - I can finally sit down without pain. Mrs B tells me there are still a couple of places which aren't yet better, though E45 seems to be helping.
Thanks all.
IanB
Mrs B says you couldn’t afford itYou can pay good money to have your spots rubbed