I wasn't trying to be funny. Claud uses pics of women who have been murdered by MEN. You made the assumption that if you were to get murdered, it would be a man who was responsible then? I'm just pointing out the blindingly obvious, that it might not be a man responsible.
Where did I say that??
And what was the point of pointing it out?
You think we don't know, that's a possibility?
Although the stats do tend to bear the other likelihood out, now you come to mention it, and as Claude has pointed out..
Why are women afraid of 'strange' men, but not strange 'women' so much.?
Are they all just idiots, for feeling that way. ??
Or are there some sound reasons .?
Some sound statistical reasons even.
Personally I just go and do stuff anyway.
Not because I'm not a bit nervous around the whole thing sometimes, I am on occasion , even after decades of doing it.
It's a legitimate fear, for me, and others, and its not groundless.
But I'm not letting the fear of what is a real possibility, but statistically unlikely, stop me from enjoying freedoms, which should be mine, and everyone else's birthright.
Of I do that, then the 'bad guys' have won right??
Just like I'm often quite 'nervous' about bringing stuff up here, I don't like talking about it, it upsets me.
But I know, it really holds a lot of women back from having fully fulfilling lives.
And they're often too afraid to voice their fears, they diminish their own voices even.
Apologise for speaking, before they've even spoken .
To be met with ridicule, or peoples 'we dont care' or 'dont talk about that stuff here' at, is upsetting.
But not as upsetting as hearing about how fearful women are, and how disregarded they feel.
Still, we don't want to bring up difficult stuff do we, let's just stick to gardening right.??