AWM6
Über Member
Lots of great advice here and sure you don't need any more! However, I would recommend the hybrid route - particularly with your phobia or drop bars (BTW: that passes quickly and most people ride on the hoods). Check our the Specialized Sirrus range as an example. I would not go with anything that has suspension as this is just energy sapping over long rides. Definitely go for slightly wider tyres (circa 32mm) so you are comfortable on both gravel and road. In my opinion, there is very little penalty vs 26/28cm on the road and the ride is much more assured. You should be able to pick a good one up for your budget. Good luck with what ever you do.