UphillSlowly
Making my way slowly uphill
It's no secret that weight loss is all about running an energy deficit; the trick is sticking to it.
I like low / no carb (so Keto, low-sugar, Atkins.. whatever) as it removes the blood sugar spikes that drive the cravings for carb-heavy food. When eating carbs I'm a total slave to the impulse to smash a bag or crisps or bar of chocolate; acting entirely at the whim of my hunger. When off carbs I recognise the physical sensation of hunger, and can just brush it aside and continue with what I'm doing.
It takes a while to get into and probably attenuates, but doesn't eliminate other motives for binging on dompamine-liberating, high-carb foods; such as tiredness or depression.
Low-carb comes with its own set of issues (foord availability, meal planning, logistics) but so far it's the only means I've managed to use with success to lose weight.
A lot of what you say echoes with me, though as a result of this thread I weighed myself and I am down to 70kg from 75 kg over the last 12 months without going low carb. Just been training a lot for an event (688 km and > 9000m elevation in May). Helps to work part time