I rode with a club for a while, as a ride leader & on the committee. Quite often on rides once there was a tail wind the pace would get silly & riders would be dropped
I raised it at several meetings & it was to be addressed, but continued. Quite often I'd be sat at the back with the 'slowest' rider & half a mile or more back from the main group. The final straw for me was when I was a ride leader one day on my single speed & got dropped towards the end of the ride, at over 20mph, was about a mile back, so peeled off the route & did another hour or so on my own & never rode with the club again.
I generally ride solo nowadays, occasionally with a friend or a group ride on here, or the Fridays & that suits me. I'm now enjoying my cycling more than ever, sometimes miss the group thing, but happy where I am, going where & when I want at the pace I want & not having to please anyone
I'm sure there are good clubs out there that do operate a true non drop policy, but reckon Strava has a lot to answer for, some folk are always after a PR