Kirstie said:
Yeah I went to a weightwatchers meeting once...having spent literally weeks plucking up the courage I was told when I turned up that most people in the meeting knew each other already and that I probably wouldn't fit in. So I never went to one again!
Whoever told you that deserves a smack! How horrible! FWIW, the meeting I go to is very friendly. New people are always welcomed. Every week, any weight loss is congratulated - the leader makes sure that it's positive. Anyone who feels in need of support is offered it. The meeting I go to, I've made some friends, it's filled with lovely folk and we support each other, share recipes for good stuff, share exercise tips, tips on how to overcome a 'bad day', how to deal with potentially difficult situations, eating out and the like. If you're in Norfolk, come to the meeting I go to, it's great!
I think with WW meetings (as with many things in life), the key to success is a good leader. Luckily, the one I go to has an excellent leader. She's supportive, encouraging, inclusive of everyone in a meeting. She had a couple of weeks holiday and we had a temporary replacement leader. As I said to my nearest & dearest as we sat in the meeting, I was glad she was a temporary leader to the meeting, as if she was permanent, I wouldn't have lasted!